This is Tammy fischer Myers, the women who my husband had an affair with while I was pregnant. My husband wasn’t the first married man and will not be the last married man she sleeps with. She isn’t the only one to blame but she damn sure didn’t put a stop to it. On Aug. 16th my husband posted something on Facebook in which she messaged him talking about it. She was flirty but he wasn’t. On the 17th she messaged him again starting the conversation up again and I then blocked her from messaging him because I knew her intentions. On August 25th I found her messaging my husband on Snapchat and I messaged her from my Facebook telling her if she did not leave my husband alone I would make it known to her husband. She claimed they were just friends and she was happily married which I did not believe. On August 28th we went to do our grocery shopping before the baby got here which was due September 9th.
We ran into her. Once we left I made a comment to my husband that at least I looked good that day because come on being almost 9 months pregnant it was difficult to even want to put on makeup. His response was well y’all both looked cute today. Then proceeds to tell me he is joking. My husband has always hunted but once these things happened he started to hunt more and was gone longer. I had my suspicions the entire time. Well on September 6th I had my last appointment before we would be induced. I started having contractions while at the doctor.
For the next three days I was in and out of the hospital with back labor to the point I was screaming in pain. On the 9th I woke up bleeding and rushed to the hospital. He sent videos and pictures to her of me while in active labor the night before I had him. She told him they were Braxton Hicks and he told her how pathetic I was. Well needless to say they weren’t Braxton Hicks and I got to the hospital Sunday morning at 9 and had our son at 3:48PM after an emergency C section because our heart rates were dropping but my husband did not go in with me because he was to worried about her. We got home on the 12th and my husband had to work nights. This is when I really started to notice the patterns and changes.
My husband stopped kissing me goodbye in the morning, wanted little to nothing to do with me or our son, he started hiding his phone when he came in, and just being down right hateful. On September 21st he said he was going hunting at 8:30 with a friend that was still in high school playing in the homecoming game. I knew better but what could I really do? On September 29th at a birthday party and he was actually being nice and stuff that day. I get a message from her husband telling me that he was at her house last night. His son had told him that he was there. My husband tried to tell me they were crazy and it was probably her trying to start stuff. Well that night I find out they had been talking and sleeping together since 3 days after knowing each other.
She lied to her husband and said they never slept together which I told him that was a lie. She lives in the same town as us and continues to play the victim saying he hurt me so bad and he said y’all were in a rough spot. Rough spot or not that’s no reason to sink your claws into someone else’s husband. Women beware she doesn’t care that your man is married or not.
