The Worst Gold Diggers Author – Makes me sick to even think about doing this but I’ve properly suffered at the hands of this man we’ve been living together for 5years now and have 3 young children stuck in the middle of the affair after an affair because I stay at home with my children he gets away with it he has separate bank accounts car phone and laptop all provided by his boss who feels he’s behavior is not cheating on me just being “friendly to co-workers” De he will make excuses to be at work 7days a week he left at 7 am this morning it’s now 10:30 at night.