Michael Thomas Are You Ready To Give Up Everything And Be Left With Nothing? Michael Thomas, [REDACTED], a “fitness trainer” and Door Dash delivery guy. He has two kids from two different moms, and he’s looking for a third! He seeks out security and goes from girl to girl mooching off of her for the stuff she has. He doesn’t love you for you, he loves you for your stuff and what you can do for him. If you didn’t have the things you let him freeload on, you wouldn’t be together. Why would anyone date him, you ask? He’s absolutely charming. Lovely to be around. He does everything right and makes you feel like you’re the only girl in the world…… Until he tries to tell you how to think, what to eat, how to dress, how to manage your day, what you shoulda/coulda/woulda done. He’s constantly accusing you of what HE does. To be with him, you must be willing to lose every argument, be told that you’re different and no one else would understand you, and that what you feel and believe is not true if it doesn’t align with his narrative. In other words, he’s verbally and emotionally abusive. Because he’s charming you let him use your car and you pay for everything. His last had her own place, two cars, and no debt as a single mom. She quit her side job and gave Michael one of her cars to help him make money on his own. She also tried helping him fix his 650 credit score but he kept so many secrets from her that if she found out that he owes $33k, for child support, my car, and a car that he no longer owns, she would definitely see where she went wrong. He makes empty promises and leaves you with a mess to clean up everywhere he goes. Michael does not have his own place to live and will not give you money for rent because it is not “his place” even though he stays there with you. He will pay for food, but that is about the full extent of “shared responsibilities” he will contribute to. He will spend time with your kids though. My son told me that his dad’s girlfriend spends more time with him than his dad does. Seriously, he spent more time with his last girlfriend’s kid than he does OUR son!!! As I sit back and watch…. over and over, once a girl decides she is not putting up with his non-contributing-a55 anymore, he leaves her devastated and blames her for everything. Where does he go, you ask? Great question. He always has another girl he’s talking to for backup. So, when you get in that last fight, the new girl believes he’s overstayed his welcome at his “cousins” house and lets him come over. And he just starts staying at the new girl’s house, following whatever she does so she doesn’t get upset… until she gets tired of his non-contribution and he moves on to the next girl. I am ashamed to say we have a son together because the women he dates (including me) have our lives together. And we put in so much effort to make things work but he has his own agenda. I’ve been told (from a trustworthy source) that she is going through some difficult times and instead of giving her support, he left her! HA! What kind of man leaves the woman he “loves” when she needs him the most? He is a manipulative, charming, piece of trash. Steer clear if he doesn’t already have his grasp on you with his charm.