I debated long and hard about this it’s been a year today but due to certain actions I decided why am I the only one who can’t go back to my life? My husband I met in February 2009 and after a long courtship and engagement we were married in 2011. It was long because I wanted to be sure this was right.

This home wrecker not only knew my husband was married but she is married herself in a 30 year marriage with young ones at home. She also tried being my friend, friending me on Facebook, loving up to me every time we came to the music venue where she waited tables.

My husband works full time but is also is in the local music scene and in 2014 he was playing a couple of places regularly each Wednesday and Sunday and frequently running sound for our best man at a third place when his friend was playing drums. This w***** worked at the place he ran sound at. Since I was busy working full time and going to school full time and inundated with tons of school work trying to make our future better I couldn’t go out always. Come to find out she was going to his other two gigs twice a week every week for 6 months – texting during the week and screwing every Wednesday and Sunday it seems bringing him booze inviting him out to other events all the while if I’m not at work, I’m at school or doing homework which took up almost every day of the week not knowing anything.

When he would bring me out it was always to the place she worked at because I loved that place – it was one of the places he used to take me when we dated back in 2009 – before she worked there. Now I asked to go there and he had no problem taking me. So not only did this bitch know he was married, she knew me, friended me, tried to be my friend on Facebook and in person. And I was making a point of coming out at least twice a month to this place so I had some down time. We would meet our best man there and his wife on Fridays and listen to music have a drink and snack on appetizers.

When it call came out it was because in mid April 2014 she upped and unfriended me and blocked me and due to the way FB works she commented on a lot of mutual posts and pictures right before she blocked me so duh you know something is weird with notifications. When a friend researched it for me it came out it was this bitch. I was dumbstruck. I only knew her as a flaky waitress in FTW who was usually high or drunk (every time I saw her) and who professed to be my friend but in truth she was just a friendly waitress at one of my favorite bar and grills. That’s all I knew.

I was furious when I found out she had blocked me but was still friends with my husband. Since I only knew her in that place – we had no association outside of this music venue or FB I knew something didn’t smell right. When I texted my husband about it I had a friend request from her in 5 minutes. I KNEW he had called her. 4 days later I found his phone open in the bathroom and there was all the proof I needed of their 6 month+ relationship.

He said he ended it but hey who knows. 5 days after I found out about them she fell and broke her back in 4 places or that was the story – KARMA. But she reached out to him through a fake FB profile when he didn’t come for her I guess. So I decided her husband gets to know and I let him know about the affair, the text mgs and pics I had found.

After being whore free for several months, this woman is back on her feet now, working back at the music venue I loved so much to go hear some of the best music and where our good friend works. I am furious she has gone on with her life, back partying working. She has unblocked my husband reaching out to him twice now both times he told me and I reported it to her husband. Of course there was always a reason – she wanted to know what we were doing so she would run into us blah blah blah. Yea well IM messages say you lie because she IM’d him first. The last thing I want to see while out with friends is the whore who f***ed my husband for 6 months while trying to be a friend to my face.

She not only messed with my husband for 6 months (that I know of) but the week before I found out all this she was at my husband’s Sunday gig and went in the bathroom with the guest guitar player and another girl. They stayed in there so long the bartender had to forcibly remove them because the 3 of them were in the bathroom all drunk for way too long – ugh nasty. I found out later this was apparently to make my husband jealous because he had just brought me out the Thursday before and she was angry we were smooching in her face (remember I still don’t know anything yet at that time). I was told by one of the wives in his band and the bartender at the Sunday gig that this whore was telling everyone I was a bitch, he was leaving me for her and that she was in love with him.

I did lots of investigation at the two places my husband played and at the place she worked at. I found out she is a pot head, alcoholic, bringing booze wherever she goes likes to run down to her jeep with patrons and take huge shots while at work – lots of it Fireball is her drink of choice. She has brought more than just my husband to her jeep for more than booze too is the story I kept getting. She has messed with more than one married musician. And her husband was suspecting her way before I told him about the affair. But most people think she is this stupid flaky groupie just a friend of the band and not too smart. She is cunning, shrewd and manipulative – but no not too intelligent.

At least I know what my husband is and I know the reasons I haven’t moved on. This whore’s husband told me my husband tricked her into cheating because of the booze. I told him when she came back for seconds she liked it and was just as guilty. I am not believing that BS. 6 months of cheating really no one was tricking anyone except us spouses who knew nothing!! Equal crime – equal time period!! Both are cheaters and liars. He didn’t want to end it because he had loved her since they were teenagers – that his business.

I did confront her a few weeks ago and she would only admit they both ruined two marriages. I told her she was evil for trying to be friendly; spying on me and my FB page seeing all the sweet things he was saying and doing for me and loving up on me when I was in her place of work. I’m pretty sure our mini honeymoon the month before she blocked me and I found the phone is what tipped her into action making sure I’d suspect something. I think when he didn’t leave she tried to make him jealous then she made sure I’d find out. When I confronted her she only wanted to talk about the other stuff I found out about her and told her husband about. She said I was lying about her. I told her that since she was an adultering whore and I had many text messages from different people about her I didn’t need to lie about her whoring ass.

But she is up to her old tricks I hear. I refuse to go to the place she works or events she may attend. I just can’t do it yet, I feel ashamed, embarrassed and uncontrollably angry. I know it’s not my fault but I don’t want to look at the face of someone in the place of what used to be my favorite dating place of the whore who screwed my husband every Wednesday and Sunday. I’m furious I have had to cut my life into pieces and the things I like to do and people I like to see I can’t do anymore because of this home wrecker. I think everyone needs to know who this bitch is and keep their guard up she’s good at friending up on band members, their wives then screwing around and shifting blame.