The Worst Gold Diggers Author – He will never leave his wife, despite whatever sob story he gives you about theirs being a loveless marriage and his wife being cold and unattractive. He will ask you to do things, saying that he NEEDS this, that his wife won’t provide. He will say that he loves you and will leave her for you, but he won’t. Do NOT give yourself to this man. He will use you and then go silent, blocking your calls.