So, I saw that my husband was on his phone A LOT recently within the last 6 months. So, I knew something was going on. He could not keep his phone out of his face. He was like a crack addict on crack. But, I didn’t want to assume anything until I had proof. So, when my mother in law passed away in May, I saw that he was on the phone ALL the time. He could not stay off it, but then again, I didn’t say anything since we were there to mourn my mother in law and did not want to start any drama. Come to find out, in June, my husband was asleep and got an alert on yahoo messenger. That is not normal. I had busted him chatting before while I was deployed to Iraq on yahoo. But we fixed it and he didn’t do it again. So, I thought anyways. Come to find out, he had been chatting with this female for a long while. I had asked him to stop and he said no. That he was not going to leave her alone and that this is how our marriage was going to be! He was going to keep on chatting with her no matter what! So, I said, like hell you are! So, I waited until the next night, and broke into his phone. I found emails and messages ALL from her and only her. He was still chatting. It was to the point where she was telling him she loved him and wanted to be with him and how she was sooooooo sad ’cause she could not hear his voice.
Well, come to find out, they were boyfriend and girlfriend in JUNIOR HIGH!!!! That was 25 yrs ago! They have not spoken or seen each other for 25 YEARS!!!! How can you be “IN LOVE” with someone you don’t even know?!?!?! So, I did my research and found out that she is married as well, with kids. So, I messaged her and asked her in a civilized manner to respond and she did not! So, I messaged her husband and told him she was cheating on him. I felt bad for her husband. He is a very nice Christian man. But I had to. No one deserves to be cheated on, especially when your spouse is telling someone else they love them! And when you think your happily married and the other person is just stabbing you in the back!! Chatting is still a form of cheating, whether they did something sexually or not!! It’s still cheating! So, you want to mess up my marriage, I’m going to mess up yours.
I’ve had ENOUGH because of this female!! So, it’s to the point where me and my husband are going to get divorced. We have 5 kids and this is what she has caused. He seems to be alllll caught up in his feelings with someone he can’t have and with someone he doesn’t even know. His mentality is still from Junior High. It’s just a shame I have wasted 11 years of my life loving this man, so he can throw it all away. Its just a shame my kids will be the ones to suffer from all of this and he doesn’t even care. That’s the worst part! But if you’re going to cheat on me, cheat on me with someone who is ON MY LEVEL and with someone who looks BETTER than me!!! Not with this COW!!! UGH!! I HATE HOMEWRECKERS!!
