The Worst Gold Diggers Author – He will make you feel special—important even. But it’s all just manipulation to get what he wants from you; which could be any number of things: sex, affection, a sense of power, or even a good ego-stroke. His number-one desire, however seems to be attention. (That whole ego-stroke thing again.) He’s fun enough, but the lies aren’t worth it. If you do engage, keep your expectations VERY low. (He’s not even a good kisser.)