The Worst Gold Diggers Author – She told my husband that if he didn’t tell me about the two of them, that she would – unless he gave her $5,000 to pay for her divorce. So, to preempt her, my husband told me about their affair. In turn, I tracked down her husband and let him know that his wife was having an affair and that she attempting to extort money to divorce him. She wound up stalking me for weeks, as did her husband who was furious at me for ruining his image of his wife.