My boyfriend and I started dating in January of 2014. Everything was going absolutely wonderful! I was as happy as I could possibly be. We dated for about 4 months and I knew I was in love. At the time my daughter Kendall was 2 years old. I decided to take a big step and introduce my boyfriend to her. They had a connection that was instant and I knew then he was the one I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Well, he started being really weird with his phone. He would always let it die and he always had it on vibrate. He had a password, but I didn’t care that he had one… I trusted him completely! I never thought to even look through his phone. One night he told me that he was going to his aunts house in Montgomery with his mom to celebrate his aunts birthday. I told him to have fun and I would see him when he got back. He text me when he got to his “aunts house” and said he was exhausted and was going to get some sleep. I told him okay and to have a good nights sleep and that was it. Well, later that night I’m scrolling through my facebook news feed and I see his mom is tagged in a post on facebook that she was at big Texas in spring. So, I thought it was weird and I text him asking him if his mom went to sleep with him. About 20 mins later he text back and told me yes. I knew he was lying at that point. I called and called and called him, but he wouldn’t answer…
He finally called back acting like he had been sleeping. I told him he was busted and that I was pissed that he had lied for no reason! If he wanted to go to the bar with his mom I wouldn’t have had a problem with it. He came to my house the next day and apologized to me. I knew something wasn’t right, why would he lie about something so small like that? So, my gut told me to ask for his phone, so… I did! He REFUSED to give it to me and was so angry for me even asking that and he took off! I told him if he didn’t let me see it that I would leave him. He came back and gave me the password and let me go though it (of course by that time any evidence of cheating was loooong gone)! He asked for mine and I handed it to him, no problem. Needless to say we moved on and I forgave him for lying to me. Ever since then I just couldn’t shake the feeling that he was hiding something. (women’s intuition) lol. Anyways, so I start thinking I need to go through his phone while he isn’t around. I decided to do it when he was sleeping. I go through his texts, calls, e-mails, but nothing. I was so relieved. Then I started thinking. He has an iPhone and if you don’t want someone contacting you, you can just block that person and you wont get calls or texts from that person. I went through his blocked list and sure enough there was a number in there that I didn’t recognize, so I text that number pretending to be him and low and behold I found out he had been talking to this girl for months! She knew about me and she didn’t care! She claimed at the time she didn’t know, but I mean c’mon a simple fb or instagram search and you would see he was obviously in a relationship! She talked all types of shit and didn’t care that he was with me, like normal dirty, home wrecking skanks do! I woke him up screaming and yelling at him and threw his phone at him. He read everything and was of course pissed that I went through his phone. He begged me not to leave him and swore nothing like that would ever happen again. It took months, but I forgave him and we moved on. Everything was perfect. I got pregnant and on April 13th 2015 I gave birth to a beautiful baby-girl. Things had happened up until her birth so him and I were separated for 2 months when I had her. Of course we are trying to work things out and be a family. Something didn’t seem right here recently. He was being real sketchy with his phone again and so I decided to go though it. I looked at the block list and there was a number I didn’t recognize, I put the number in fb on my phone and searched to see who it was. And guess whose name popped up? COURTNEY! Once again! Apparently, she and him had fucked in our separation! In my house him and I had shared as a family! She knew we had had a baby and just didn’t care. Him and I weren’t together at this point, but the things she said in the messages on fb about how she was obsessed with my (now fiancé ) and didn’t care back then that we were together really hit a nerve with me! She knew we were back together and still tried contacting him! She is nothing but a dirty skank. So, ladies if you see your man around Courtney Padgett make sure he stays away! She doesn’t give a damn about him being in a relationship!
