Derek Brubaker is a home wrecker, cheater, liar and manipulator. He has cheated on all 3 of his wives. He uses the classic cheater lines and blames his actions on others. His soon to be ex wife learned about his cheating past 5 years into their marriage when he had a long term affair while travelling for work. She forgave him and now 7 years later he started an affair with his coworker Sheryl Messer. His wife kicked him to the curb and immediately filed for divorce and the next day he was shacked up with Sheryl who denied anything was going on. Sounds fishy. He has abandoned his kids and has not acknowledged them in almost 6 months. That’s the thing about narcissists, they like to put on a good show for people and never accept responsibilty. Everybody beware of this man. As Sheryl says, he’s got good game. Don’t fall prey to his lies or manipulation. He’ll reel you in with his charm and leave you at the first sign of him thinking his needs are not being met. He was the married one who decided to stray so at the end of the day he is real home wrecker!!!