The Worst Gold Diggers Author – Public safety wives beware. Normally we hear about the Er nurses, but the dispatchers are just as big of a problem. If your husband or boyfriend wears a badge she is coming for him. The conversations and naked pictures was taken to her husband when I found them. I’ve never seen a man so heart broken. This affair went on for over 4 years , even as she was planning her wedding. Husband decided to stay with her, I didn’t. Mine wasn’t the only one, Pattern will be repeated.