The Worst Gold Diggers Author – Julio or “JR” is a genuine narcissist who is originally from the Philippines; however, he managed to manipulate his way into the United States by scamming a very uncommonly kind American woman to obtain a green card so he could legally live and work in the United States so that he could send all of his paychecks to the Philippines. De his scam begins when he meets a person of choice (man/woman), he will start the relationship acting very charming, flirty, loving, supportive, complimentary, caring, giving, compassionate, intelligent, and respectful. After he gets tired of the charade, his true colors start coming out and he will start showing his true dark side which is narcissistic, controlling, disrespectful, immature, and unacceptable behavior, financial irresponsibility, selfishness, uncaring and uncompassionate, spoiled, bullying, disrespectful, cheating (talking/sexing with other women/men), Abusive (physically, mentally/emotionally, financially, and verbally), never take responsibilities for his own faults and never genuinely apologizes, he lies a lot (hides important information for his benefit), domineering, and displays signs of sociopathic traits. JR is a very good liar and manipulator and he will do everything and anything he can to get what he wants even if it means hurting a person in many aspects without remorse or acting as he has no conscience. Another crazy thing he is known for is that he has a demented fetish for male animal genitalia (e.g., cat, dog, hamster balls); he hates kids and he abused his ex-wife and kids and doesn’t want them; he has some sort of OCD Olfactory issue where he enjoys smelling everything and puts you on a checklist to see if you “smell right” for him and if you do not, he will bully you; wears women’s perfume/lotion; he constantly displayed inappropriate homosexual behavior while supposed to have told his wife he was straight (lied); he showed signs of “vaginaphobia” during sex and would not touch anything with his hands; two-faced personality to family and friends (caught); will make friends and borrow money and never repay them, and he will totally ignore you during the relationship where you pretty much have to fight for his attention (e.g., grab his phone or demand it). So, no, he is a NO GOOD person to have a relationship with. He is ALL about himself and manipulating ways to survive to his benefit. You will be very thankful I warned you. Please, DO NOT fall for his fake charming personality, because he is a fake ass.