The Worst Gold Diggers Author – Winsby had sex with a friend of his and realized he was gay. He had ended every one of his four to six month relationships with women due to his struggle with his gay identity. He continues to fake relationships with women as a way of hiding behind fake straightness and deceiving his father, society, and others into thinking he is straight. He continues to have sexual affairs (with his friend and others) with men behind their backs. He also uses large amounts of alcohol to convince himself and others to go through with this behavior and is not known for practicing safe sex.