The Worst Gold Diggers Author – My husband introduced Vickie as a “friend” that he was trying to help. It didn’t take long for me to figure out that the two of them were more than just friends. She convinced him to give her all our savings and he lied to me about where the money was going and has asked him to leave me for her. During their “friendship” she has had other “boyfriends.” As long as she can use a man, married or not she will and once she gets her hands on your man she will never let go.