The Worst Gold Diggers Author- This is Jay Jarvis, I have a daughter with him but he up and left while I was pregnant with her 11 years ago. His reasoning for leaving was, he wasn’t ready to be a father, typical male response. Fast forward to today, he has 4 or 5 kids with some chick named Melissa Jarman aka Jarvis, chooses to parent those kids, but when I ask him if he wants to meet his daughter because she’s been asking for her father, he goes and tells me that he does not want to be involved in her life because he’s a married man now and has his own family, talk about a dead beat. Yet when his first child with Melissa was born he was out there telling everyone that isn’t his child because “she’s so white” so I don’t know, maybe it’s good he’s not involved because my daughter deserves better than that thing in her life but maybe he should of wrapped it if he wasn’t prepared to be a dad. By the way, Jay. I am getting a lawyer, taking you for DNA testing and coming after you for all of the years you haven’t been helping raise her. Hope Melissa sees this too because, you are just as much as a problem as he is, brainwashing him into not being in his child life because you’re so insecure and jealous.