My husband suffers from a mental disability from his time in the military, and this woman has stayed in the background for over a year or more I believe watching my family watching my husband and now is putting a lot of thoughts and ideas in his head and he left our home and abandon us. I was receiving weird mail in our mailbox with her name on it not her last name but her first name for the last year and I kept thinking maybe it was an accident but wants all of the stuff came out I found out that was her name so I believe she was also sending mail with her first name and our last name together to be sneaky. She has two kids fairly young so I imagine the father left her and now she is desperate for someone. 12 year marriage and beautiful family going to waste from this homewrecker.